Trust-I am saying "gurls" and not girls and "gurls" as opposed to women because as the letters in the word "gurl" seem out of place and misspelled and at the same time the word "gurls" fittingly falls short of the word woman. Much in the same way "gurls" have their ideals twisted- SMH.
Y is it that gurls take so much sh#t from men-sometimes even men they may have just met, but they treat their closest and faithful friends, sometimes even family like crap?! This is seriously a topic that puzzles me beyond belief.
If a "best friend" or family member "Crosses" a "gurl" (this is generally speaking although I hate to generalize I feel it's a go this time) she immediately wants to deal with it by verbal or physical confrontation. If her "boyfriend/man/a guy she just met but likes" gets caught lying or does something offensive or to turn her off enough for her to voice it to him or someone she loves and trusts enough to open up to... she can cooly forgive him and will without too much hesitation continue to put 100% of herself on the line for him. It's sad because it's like there is a mixup regarding priorities in regards to who we "let in" and who deserves our love and forgiveness and that bothers me.
In the same breath, the "boi/dude"-falling short of Man that finds such "gurl" and thinks he may have "lucked up" because she will take what he gives and give all he will take. This "boi/dude" is getting that "gurl" who is misspelled, out of place, and she who has fallen short of what it is that his soul will long for... WoMan.
They are a perfect match. I'm just saying...
Signed by: Happy to be WoMan
I've seen this often and probably have been the "gurl" in my past. In most cases, the reason why females behave like this from what I've seen and experienced is that they are commonly in love with the "idea" of being in a relationship and they want to take short cuts to get it. When in actuality the main thing being shorted is their reality. Many females trade their passion of the "idea" of being in a pretty picture relationship for the reality of what the situation really is. Whose to blame, the dude who seemingly takes advantage of this "privalege" he receives or the chick who has selective forgiveness...I blame everything on BET. j/k (well not really)
ReplyDeleteKrissy I totally agree with you and the fact is that many males and females are "together" because of what being in a relationship says to the world- o wow there must be something special about him or her because they have "found" someone. It is scary to think of the lengths that people will go to and the torture some of them are willing to subject themselves to just to look "good" in society's eyes- LOL I partially blame it on BET!
ReplyDeleteThe other portion of the article was about the way females "gurls" in particular will react to their close friends (girlfriends mostly) and family if they feel wronged or betrayed even to the slightest degree. The "gurl" I am referring to is the type that will cut her best friend off or put her on a very short leash without a second thought to "protect" herself and in the same breath turn right around and beg to be with the man that just beat her or slept with her sister....smh
Thanks for the feedback!